you should wait until you both think you are ready, are omfortable with each other, have both gotten tested, and have at least one, if not two forms of protection. trust me, you'll be much happier in the long run that you did a lot of planning out.
theres no right or wrong time. you'll both figure it out when you both feel ready. don't feel pressured to do ANYTHING by ANYONE, don't rush the other, and like mary c sed when you are ready get tested, wrap it up, and your good.
Permalink Reply by Kita on November 28, 2009 at 8:09am
Mary c is right about all the physical requirements.
Emotionally, really you have to be able to talk about it with your partner and sort of feel out when the time is right.